Doesn't it really get to you when people judge you before they know you? If it does I know EXACTLY how you feel. Guys appreciate the friends you have, and make sure, when you meet someone, get to know them before you jump straight to any conclusions. Over the years i have been judges for looks, other peoples opinion on me and worst of all my background. Remember: Don't judge a book by its cover, because the author made the cover to attract you. Really inside there could be a bitchy, rude person. Just waiting to humiliate you. Past experience gives me the right to say this. I knew this girl for 7 years. We were BEST FRIENDS, and guys I mean joint at the hip close! She got into the wrong crowd and I wasn't letting her drag me down. Just remember, you might not really know a person as soon as ya think. "Best friend" is a word I find to fondly used nowdays. You should have one or two best friends, that know everything about you, and HONESTLY love you, for you.
And remember everyone, there is always someone you can trust, but don't trust people before you really know them.
Hann,
xoxo